Preventing Premature Ejaculation
Preventing premature ejaculation is sometimes necessary for a couple who are trying to make a baby together. There are some cases of premature ejaculation (P.E.) that cause a man to ejaculate even before he has entered the woman, thus spilling his semen on the floor, or bed, etc, and not getting any of it inside the woman where it may lead to fertilization and pregnancy.
Preventing premature ejaculation may thus be of paramount importance to a couple that desires to conceive. The inability to conceive a child together when there is a shared desire to do so can lead to terrible complications in the relationship, and if not reconciled the feelings of frustration with this matter may lead to a breakup or a divorce. The man may come to believe that he is impotent and needs to let his woman got find another man; the woman may believe that her man just doesn't care enough about her desires to "hold it just a little longer" so he can fertilize her.
Neither one of these notions is true. Nevertheless, the anxiety and stress that this inability to get pregnant can cause the woman to feel can lead to distortions of thought that eventually could rip apart the relationship. Preventing premature ejaculation in these cases is needed to save the relationship or marriage.
A man is not impotent if he has P.E. and he also doesn't have any subconscious "block" against having a child or wanting to fulfill his lover's desire for one. P.E. is a serious medical problem and it may be rooted in physical or psychological difficulties of a certain kind, but it's neither one of those extremes, and no man or woman in a relationship should ever believe that it is.
P.E. this severe may be rooted in a man being unable to control his sexual thoughts, in the sense that just the thought that he's about to have sex causes such arousal that he ejaculates. While this may sound childish to some, it's not much different from psychosomatic illnesses or phobias, in which certain thoughts trigger uncontrollable physical responses. Also, the thoughts leading to P.E. may not be ones of pleasure, but thoughts of anxiety. If a man is lacking in bedroom self-confidence for any reason, it can possibly lead to P.E. as his subconscious mind triggers the ejaculation as a means of overcompensation for fears of underperformance.
Another problem may be too much physical stimulation before intercourse is attempted. If a man masturbates with his lover or if she masturbates him or gives him oral sex just before attempting intercourse, he could come so close to climax that as he begins to move to enter the woman he does climax and ejaculates before he can penetrate her.
There may also be a problem with substance use. Too much drinking or the use of illicit drugs can interfere with focus and cause premature ejaculation as if the man is having a "wet dream while awake".
And some older men (beyond age 45) may be out of shape and thus start experiencing spontaneous lack of ejaculatory control because of weakness in the muscles involved in the spinal reflex of orgasm and ejaculation.
All of these problems are treatable, and thus preventing premature ejaculation in order to get a woman pregnant is possible.
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- Language not always professional (a bit lewd)
- Money back guarantee
The
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is an instant download in ebook format. It gives a detailed account of
the theories of premature ejaculation and what causes it. It
explains the different stages of arousal and how to get in tune with
your own body. There is no doubt that what he teaches works for many
men. Much of the information can be found in other products and
we subtract 1 full star for the parts where the author uses street
language, rather than a professional tone. Money back guarantee if you aren't fully satisfied.
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